The 12 Stepping Stones

I took the Loveologist curriculum of courses from Dr Ava at Loveology University. There is so much incredible information that it was overwhelming at times – but I put together a plan. She offers a course called the Master Sexpert course and the Love Coach Certification course.

So, here are the topics in the Master Sexpert course – I finished the Certified Romantic courses first and then moved on to the Master Sexpert courses, which include:

• Anal Pleasure
• Erotic Talk
• Erotic Massage
• Foreplay
• G-Spot
• Kissing
• Oral Sex
• Orgasm
• Pleasing a Man
• Pleasing a Woman
• Power Play
• Sex Fantasies
• Sex Positions
• Sex Taboos
• Sex Toys

The first certificate that I earned was for the Anal Pleasure course. If you would like to see more details about what I’m doing – visit

Course Catalog – https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

Loveology University Homepage – https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/

These are some of the topics in this course -

• Anal for Women

• Anal for Men

• Anal Taboo

• Orgasm

• Spanking

• Cleansing & Douching

• Masturbation

• Anal Massage  & Fingering

• Toys & Butt Plugs

• Lubrication

• Prostate Massage

Anal Pleasure

This Course Is For You If:  You want to Approach Your Lover for the First Time About Having Anal Sex You want to Learn The Art of Anal Massage You want to Discover the Best Anal Sex Positions You want to  Know How to Enhance Anal Sex with Toys Welcome to Loveology University’s Anal Pleasure Certification Course. Here you will learn why anal pleasure is still taboo in some places, even though research shows it has been around and enjoyed since ancient Roman times. The do’s and don’ts of anal sex are spelled out for you in the name of safety. You’ll want to know the best positions for anal pleasuring and guidelines on STD’s you can catch from unsafe anal sex. How to approach your partner for the first time about anal sex can be tricky, but with these tips it will be a cinch. If you haven’t experienced an anal orgasm, you’ll find out how you can in this course. With all the various lubes and toys there is no reason why you can’t enjoy anal sex and experience mind-blowing orgasms with someone who also appreciates the erotica of back door sex.  Course Price: $49.95

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=45

I saw this on Dr Ava’s blog (www.dravablog.com) and had to share it. We talked about it and the recipe to women’s fantasies varies from women to women — so what would be your fantasy recipe? Feel free to share it here. Take a look at the suggested fantasy ingredients and see how you would customize the recipe for your personal fantasies.

There are six types of love – they were categorized by John Allen Lee. Love is a multidimensional part of our life – so there is no way one – four letter word could sum up the diversity of love in our lives.

The six categories include: agape, eros, ludus, mania, pragma and storge. You may have heard of a couple of those, but let’s take a closer look at each type.

Agape

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 gives us the scriptural description of agape love: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”

Do you describe love as selfless, generous and a sacrifice? These words can be seen as positives or negatives, depending on the person. This is often a love that does not include intimacy or giving and receiving. However, agape lovers will often remain faithful to one another to avoid pain. In a healthy marriage, sex and intimacy are a gift for the partners. People who chose to have agape love in a marriage can suffer by inattention to each other’s physical, mental and emotional needs.

Eros

Eros is often described as “love at first site” and “being struck by cupid’s arrow”. There are many schools of thought about how lasting eros love can be. Eros lovers are very passionate, have sensual desires and they enjoy touching. This type of love leads to that “honeymoon” feeling and some people claim to be “twitterpated”.

This is the type of love where people can be drawn together because of a physical attraction. Over time this can cool and they “fall out of love” with each other. In some cases, a deeper and long lasting love can develop. In the beginning of a relationship, people often put their best foot forward. But as they get to know each other better, they may or may not “fall” deeper in love with one another on a deeper level. This high intensity love can be very short lived if both people are not willing to work to maintain it.

Ludus

Ludus is a playful and flirtatious love. People who enjoy the chase phase of a relationship may experience this type of love. They enjoy chasing, playing the game and the conquest of a new person. However, once they catch this person, the relationship i often over.

Many people like a loving relationship for the security and commitment – that is not an appeal in ludus love. It is not uncommon for ludus love to move on to a new potential conquest before the previous relationship has ended. This is the lover who likes to make notches on their bedpost to keep count of their conquests – it is quantity of “love” over quality. They may also see love as a trap and view the ability to reproduce to be a sign of masculinity.

Mania

Mania is a destructive love that is extreme, wild and can be dangerous. This love has many highs and lows . The person can go from intense attraction and great intensity and then neediness, jealousy and obsession.

A maniac lover has an unreasonable fear of losing their partner and need to be reassured all the time. Even reassurance often are not enough to lessen the intense nature of their manic love. This person will stalk, smother, work very hard to possess and control their partner. A manic lover often has low self esteem and that manifests itself in the way they treat their partner.

Manic lovers may view marriage or a long term relationship as a means of ownership. Children may be seen as a competition for other’s attention or children may be used as a substitute for their lover. Sex can be used as a way to gain reassurance of their partner’s love. It is not uncommon for a manic love to lead to an addictive and/or codependent relationship.

Pragma

Pragma is a practical love that may fill a need the way a business arrangement would. Each partner brings something to the relationship that the other needs and has a value to each other, such as – money, stability, a home, a parent for a child, etc. This love is convenient for each partner and their compatibility can have nothing to do with intimacy or sex. Although it is convenient, these relationships are not always successful.

This love is very rational and they often have real expectations about their partner. These partners may work harder to avoid infidelity because they want to avoid the consequences of their action. This prompts them to weigh the cost and reward of the relationship – often without the usual emotional persuasion. Sex may be considered to be a reward between the partners or only as a means to have children. Depending on the person, marriage and children can seem like assets or liabilities.

Storge

How many times have we read or watched the story of a person debating whether they should have a relationship with a best friend or a passionate lover? Storge love is the answer to this question. Storge gives you the best of both world. You friend and lover are the same person. This love begins as a friendship and over time a deeper love and intimacy develop between the two people.

The friendship and this closeness is a primary attraction to the relationship. There can be passion – but the passion and sex in the relationship is often secondary to the intimacy they enjoy. They can spend very satisfying intimate time together and be satisfied even if it does not lead to sexual intimacy. This does not mean that sex is not a part of the relationship, but the other elements of their love are often more important to their happiness. These people have peace, security and stability in their love that other people may never know. Even if the romantic elements of the relationship lessen over time, they maintain the valued friendship.

Excerpt from Love Certification Course by Dr Ava Cadell

These are types of lovers who make, good matches, possible matches, difficult matches and dangerous matches.

Good Match

Eros + Eros

Storge + Storge

Pragma + Pragma

Possible Match

Storge + Eros

Agape + Eros

Ludus + Ludus

Storge + Pragma

Storge + Agape

Mania + Mania

Difficult Match

Eros + Ludus

Eros + Manic

Pragma + Ludus

Agape + Ludus

Mania + Storge

Agape + Mania

Pragma + Agape

Agape + Agape

Dangerous Match

Pragma + Eros

Ludus + Storge

Ludus + Mania

Mania + Pragma

Love Certification Course From Loveology University

This Course Is For You If:

* You want to Learn the 5 Ingredients of Love
* You want to Find and Keep Everlasting Love
* You want to Know How to Love A Woman versus a Man
* You want to Know the Difference Between Love and Lust

Welcome to Loveology University’s Love Certification Course. Who else offers a certification on a course as valuable as love? In this course you’ll learn about the history of love, the different kinds of love and how to get the love you need. From self-love, romantic love to passionate love, this course offers groundbreaking techniques to make your life a loving one. You’ll learn about the 5 essential ingredients to finding love, 12 keys to keeping love, how to love a woman verses how to love a man and some fascinating statistics on love around the world. So if you want more love in your life, start by becoming certified in LU’s course on love.

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=31&a_aid=litekepr

For a sneak peek into some of the information in the kissing course from Loveology University – watch Dr Ava on The Doctors in this video clip

http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/home_page?init_type=Feature&init_id=3242?

Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)

• What Kissing Is
• Kinds of Kisses
• History of Kissing
• Myths of Kissing
• Preparing for the Kiss
• The Art of Kissing
• Kissing Rules
• What Can be Kissed
• Kissing Targets
• G-Love
• Where to Sneak a Kiss
• Kissing – How To
• Tantra Kisses
• Kissing Positions
• Kissing All Five Senses
• Kissing Boundaries
• Healing Kisses
• Kissing Fears
• Kiss-ercise
• Kissing Games
• Kissing Concerns
• Orgasmic Kissing
• Kissing with Piercing
• The Hickey Kiss
• Kissing Crimes
• Kissing the Genitals

and more……

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
• You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
• You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
• You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

It is not really a secret that men do not understand women and let’s be honest, women don’t really understand men.  A total understanding of your partner may be too much to tackle all at once. So, let’s start with an attempt to shed a little light on that mysterious thing we call “female sexuality”.

If we’re being honest – how many women really understand their sexuality? I’ll be honest that for many years I avoided any deep consideration of my own sexuality or anyone else’s. For years I’d been told that “nice girls” don’t know that sort of thing. Well, I’m here to tell you that I got past that mentality and it is very liberating and empowering to understand your sexuality. Its also very satisfying to “feel comfortable in your own skin” and being comfortable with yourself – and that includes your sexuality – is a wonderful thing.

It is also very beneficial to understand your partner’s sexuality. That gives you a much better understanding of who they are on a deeper level and… a better understanding of how to please them.

There are five key elements to a woman’ sexuality

1. Accept your sexuality
2. Understand what arouses and stimulates you
3. Understand your body
4. Give yourself permission to “let go”
5. Take responsibility for your own orgasms

Let’s dig deeper into each of these elements of female sexuality.

First, you need to be able to accept your sexuality. It is a part of who you are and understanding that is acceptable and very beneficial for you and your partner. Society, family, friends and/or religion can have a very detrimental effect on how we view our sexuality. These factors can also cause us to suppress our sexual feelings, needs and desires. Go ahead, be human and enjoy the sensations.

Second, you need to know what arouses and stimulates you. This is important for you personally, but its also important for your partner. How can you help your partner please you — if you don’t know what pleases you? You will learn to understand what you like and what pleases you – in many different ways.  Once you understand what pleases you, you can share these things through communication with your partner. Then, encourage your partner to communicate what they want and need from you.

Third, learn about your body. Do you know the various parts of your genital anatomy? If not, you should get to know each part and to learn more about those parts of your body. Your partner would also benefit from learning more about your anatomy. For diagrams to learn the actual location of the various parts of the female and male anatomy, visit http://lovecoachjourney/female-anatomy/

Fourth, give yourself permission – mentally, emotionally and physically – to give in to complete and total pleasure. There are too many women who have been “programmed” to feel guilty when they are aroused. That makes it difficult if not impossible to have a very satisfying sex life. Dr Ava Cadell, a mentor of mine says, that “love is a beautiful gift for someone who is deserving of you.” When you are with someone deserving of your love and your trust – surrendering to them completely sexually can be one of the most beautiful things you will experience.

Fifth, men may not like this, but women need to take responsibility for their own orgasms. We want our partner to learn how to stimulate us – but we need to take responsibility for reaching orgasms and allowing ourselves to “let go”. How often have we heard someone say they “gave” their partner an orgasm? Not to bust your bubble or puncture your ego, but orgasm begins in the mind and while a partner can do many wonderful things to facilitate orgasm – the individual needs to take personal responsibility for their own orgasms.

This is only the beginning of the details about female sexuality. We have much more to discuss in future posts.

These are things that a Love Coach can help you to develop in your own life. If you would like more details, contact me at lovecoachjourney @ gmail.com

To check out the Loveology University Female Sexuality Course, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=40&a_aid=litekepr

What is the most important relationship in your life? We love our family and we all have friends that we love. The relationship with our significant other, husband, wife, or partner is one that we need to nurture and build. But how many people do you know in unhappy or unhealthy relationships?

Many of us grew up in a household where our parents stayed together “for the children”, but we knew they were unhappy. Did you grow up promising yourself that you would never make those same mistakes? You’re in good company if you did – but many people do not have the knowledge they need to have a successful, long term relationship. So, do you just continue to stay in an unhappy relationship? Do you leave someone you love because you just can’t figure out the problems? Or, do you have another choice? Yes – you do have a choice.

There are many possible reasons why a relationship is especially rocky and difficult. I found long ago that if you don’t feel good about yourself – dare I say, if you don’t love yourself – it is very difficult if not impossible to be in a healthy relationship with someone else. Growing up, I was taught all the things that “good girls” don’t do. I was also told that anyone who does certain “unapproved” things – is a bad person. Many people have similar experiences, but what can you do about these things?

In some religions, some societies, and some families, you will be treated badly, talked down to or even banned – for “unacceptable” behavior. This often leads to excessive sexual guilt that can wreak havoc with future relationships. It can lead women to feel they shouldn’t enjoy sex, it can lead to “sexless” marriages where both partners are unhappy and it can lead to many other issues in your relationship.

People seldom feel this is something you would talk with a psychiatrist or psychologist about – and it certainly isn’t something that you would talk to your minister about. So, what option do you have? You can schedule an appointment with a love coach – also known as a relationship coach.

As a relationship coach – I work with people to help with many different problems. Some of the things I like to focus on include:

• Learning to love yourself and accept yourself as you are
• Learning to get in touch with your sexuality and “feel comfortable in your own skin”
• Learning to deal with inhibitions and/or self esteem issues
• Helping men and women better understand their sexuality and how it affects their lives
• Work with individuals or couples, to build a solid foundation for a long term relationship.

The building blocks of a solid relationship can include: learning to flirt (for new or established relationships), successful dating (for new or established relationships), learn to communicate effectively, develop a real intimacy with your partner, the art of kissing, understand and develop a lasting love, learn the skills and emotions of stimulating foreplay, how to enrich your life as a couple and much more.

I would be very happy to provide a 20 minute consultation to discuss your concerns and whether I can help you. I meet with clients in a variety of ways: instant message, chatting, phone or in person (if feasible). I am located in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia and welcome the opportunity to talk with you. Feel free to contact me at lovecoachjourney@gmail.com and you can visit my blog at http://www.lovecoachjourney.com for posts on a wide variety of relationship topics.

Learn more about how to become a Love Coach — its an investment in your future and provides you with a way to help other people improve their lives too. http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=22&a_aid=litekepr

Hercules, the Pleasure Coach (http://www.facebook.com/pages/Los-Angeles-CA/The-Pleasure-Coach/214880930955) shared this article on Facebook and I had to share it here -

The Yoni Massage

Information in General

The method given here for Vagina Massage is the ancient Indian way of massaging the vagina called as Yoni (pronounced as YO-NEE) in Sanskrit. Also consider as “Sacred Space” or “Sacred Temple. In Tantra sex ritual, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. As a tradition to give respect to women

The aim of the vagina/Yoni Massage is to create a space for the woman (the receiver) to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. This massage is also a way to treat a woman from sexual blocks, traumas or from fear of sex. Her partner (the giver) enjoy a new experience of being of service and witnessing a very different arena of Tantra sex. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of safer sex by wearing some gloves in hand and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy .

The aim of the Yoni massage is not orgasm is not to bring a climax. Orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome by product of the entire ritual. The aim is simply to pleasure and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed to happen or not happen depending on your way of doing which you learn by experience.

In this massage the giver has nothing to gain, he is just at the donors end, just allowing the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself afterwards. Of course, other sexual activity may follow but it should be entirely the receiver’s choice. This perspective will build greater intimacy and trust, and will greatly broaden your sexual horizons.

STARTING THE PROCESS

Taking a shower is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and giver. A quiet space is desirable with pleasing music, red colored candles, pillows, etc., or whatever makes the participants relax and feel safe. Allow yourself enough time and do not hurry through the process. It is also recommended if you have soft silk mattresses, and white curtains, with a dim red light.

Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results will occur when the bowels and bladder are empty and you will avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage to go to the bathroom. Keep the genitals clean washed carefully with a soft soap. And the giver has to be careful that his nails has to be properly trimmed.

Cuddle with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other’s eyes for an extended time), or whatever brings you to a place of safety and relaxation.

RITUAL

Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. It is necessary that the vagina has to be clean shaved, but there should not be too long hairs.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers’ legs. The giver may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body.

Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or takes shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is very important here. Do not try to control the breath or take very long pauses between breaths.

Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching the Yoni.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Even you can use some good cream also, but oils are the best lubricator.

Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend some time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time.

The receiver can massage her own breasts or may just relax and continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for giver and receiver to look into each other’s eyes as much as possible. The receiver can tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to be increased or decreased. Limit your speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the effects.)

Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to just relax and breathe.

Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni In rituals and Tantra sex there is a specific reason of using the right hand, as it has to do with the polarity in Tantra. Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/ vagina with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember, this is a massage and you’re nurturing and relaxing the Yoni.

With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a “come here” gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the Sacred spot as says Tantra Sex. Your partner may feel as if they have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again vary the pressure, speed and pattern of the movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger You can also insert the finger that’s between your middle finger and pinky. Check with your partner first before sticking two fingers into them. Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well.

This is just an optional part; some women do not like this, just take permission from your partner and then insert your one finger by using some lubrication into her anus. Use the finger which you are not going to insert her Yoni. And be very gentle. The ritual prefers to use the little finger in her anus.

Your left which has nothing to do at this time can be used to massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris if you massage the clitoris it’s usually best to use your thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of your hand resting on and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. I do not recommend using your left hand to touch your own genitals because it may take your focus off the receiver. Remember, this massage is for her pleasure and much of the benefit comes from not only the physical stimulation but the intent as well.

Continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. Keep breathing and looking into each other’s eyes. The receiver may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep deep breathing and be gentle. Many women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of great value to her.

If she has an orgasm, keep her deep breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called “riding the wave.” Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient partner.

Keep massaging until she tells you to stop. Very slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to just lay there and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.

http://www.occultmystery.com/vm.htm

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

• Communication
• Kissing
• Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

• Seduction
• Intimacy
• Erotic Massage
• Sexual Fantasies
• Erotic Talk
• Pleasing a Man
• Pleasing a Woman
• Oral Sex
• Sexual Positions
• Tantric Sex
• Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

• An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
• It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

• Friendship
• Respect
• Trust
• Communication
• Passion
• Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
• You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
• You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
• You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

It seemed appropriate to post details about this course now – because May is Masturbation Month.

I recently completed the Masturbation certification course in my Love Coach training from Loveology University. Masturbation is a topic that gets a bad rap with many people and much of society. So – it is very likely that some people will not agree with much of the content of this course.

These are the topics in this course:

• What Masturbation Is
• Early Memories of Masturbation
• Freedom of Sexual Expression
• Myths about Masturbation
• Slang Masturbation for Girls and Guys
• Preparing for Masturbation & Lubrication
• What do I Touch?
• Male & Female Masturbation: How To
• Therapeutic Masturbation
• The Squeeze Technique & Tips to Make Men Last Longer
• Separate Orgasm from Ejaculation
• Different Places to Masturbate & Different Positions
• Masturbation Related to Relationships
• How to Introduce Masturbation to Your Lover
• Visuals & Audio for Masturbation
• How to Use Common Objects & Sex Toys for Masturbation
• What is a Compulsive Masturbator
• Masturbation Concerns & Consequences of Masturbation

The meaning of masturbation is – Masturbation means touching your own body, including your genitals for sexual pleasure. This is an expression of our sexuality. Our second basic instinct is sexuality, while survival is our first basic instinct.

Masturbation is:

• A normal and healthy part of “maturing” as we explore our own bodies
• Pleasurable and erotic
• Promotes self confidence
• Safe sex activity
• Natural stress reliever
• Helps treat sexual dysfunctions
• Helps you connect with yourself; self-love

What are some of your earliest memories of masturbation? Whether you did masturbate or not, these are probably some of the first things you remember.

• Being told not to do it at all or in public & trying to hide it
• Feeling embarrassed
• Not knowing why it feels so good
• Asking peers about it or telling someone you do it
• Spying on your family members to see if they do it
• Getting caught by your mother, brother, father or neighbor
• Feeling that rush of pleasure for the 1^st time & feeling guilty you enjoyed it

Masturbation has been wrongly blamed for a host of human ills, including:

• Blindness
• Feeblemindedness & Neurotic disorders
• Sexual perversion
• Reduced sexual function
• Only people who “can’t get any” masturbate
• It’s bad to masturbate everyday
• Men need to do it and women don’t
• People in relationships don’t masturbate
• Makes you “lose” your virginity, or “ruin” it for intercourse

On the lighter side, these are some “fun facts” about masturbation:

• 80% of males and 59% of females have masturbated by age 18
• 98% of men have or do masturbate, 95% of women have masturbated or currently do
• American Medical Association declared masturbation a normal and healthy sexual activity
• Reduces stress by releasing endorphins
• Enhances self-esteem and confidence
• Female masturbation can relieve menstrual cramps
• Male masturbation can help to prevent the development of prostate cancer
• It keeps our sexual organs in good working order
• Effective natural cure for insomnia – release of tension that lead to a deeper, quicker sleep
• Relieves headaches and muscle aches

The course suggests that you “prepare” to masturbate and like with any sexual activity, involve all 5 of your senses. Here are some suggestions:

TASTE: Have some of your favorite finger foods and beverages available at arms length

SOUND: Play music or an erotic audio, moan

SIGHT: Position a mirror strategically so you can see yourself

SMELL: Light incense or scented candles

TOUCH: Cover your body in oil or wear touchable fabrics such as silk, lace, satin, velvet, latex, or leather

This is just a small sample of the information you can learn in the very comprehensive course on masturbation – which you can study in the privacy of your own home.

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn Dozens of Masturbation Techniques
• You want to Introduce Masturbation to Your Lover
• You want to Learn About Vagina Aerobics
• You want to Masturbate for Penis Elongation

Welcome to Loveology University’s Masturbation Certification Course. Inside you will learn all you need to know about pleasuring yourself. You may think you already know all about Masturbation, but this info course is guaranteed to teach you new knowledge to add to your arsenal. With over 40 how-to techniques for men and women and a host of unique masturbation positions, you will be sure to take self-pleasuring to a whole new level. Whether you would like to use this information for yourself or to help your clients, keep an open mind and enjoy your ride.

For many more details about this course or any other course on love, relationships and sex, visit – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=24&a_aid=litekepr